One Day at a Time, the Real Story Behind the Romano Family

TLDR: One Day at a Time gave network television its first real look at a divorced single mother raising two teenage daughters. Off screen, one of those daughters married a rock legend, the other grew up inside a rock legend’s own house, and neither outcome was quite what viewers assumed at the time.


One Day at a Time premiered on CBS on December 16, 1975, developed by Whitney Blake and Allan Manings and produced for Norman Lear’s company.

Blake based the show directly on her own life as a single mother, including raising her own daughter, future actress Meredith Baxter, after her own divorce, and the series followed divorced Ann Romano as she raised daughters Julie and Barbara in Indianapolis with help from an overly familiar building superintendent.

The show ran nine seasons and tackled premarital sex, sexual harassment, and suicide at a time when few sitcoms touched any of it.

It earned a TV Land Innovator Award decades later specifically for carving out that new territory, and you can read the full story of the man behind it, and several other shows built on the same idea, in our piece on Norman Lear.

Ann Romano Fought for the Show’s Honesty Right to the End

Bonnie Franklin played Ann Romano across all nine seasons, earning an Emmy nomination for a role that made her a genuine advocate for treating single mothers as real, complex people on screen.

She kept that same conviction going for decades after the show ended, becoming a real activist for AIDS care and founding a nonprofit that brings classic American plays into inner-city schools.

You can read the full story of her career and activism, and the details of her 2013 death, in our full guide to Bonnie Franklin.

Julie Was Fired Twice, Then Wrote the Book Nobody Expected

Mackenzie Phillips played rebellious older daughter Julie, arriving already famous from American Graffiti and already the daughter of Mamas & the Papas founder John Phillips.

Her own struggles with addiction, inherited from a childhood inside her father’s rock-star household, got her fired from the show not once but twice.

Her father’s shadow, and the difficult story she later told about it, shaped the rest of her career far more than the show itself ever did.

Barbara Married a Different Kind of Rock Star

Valerie Bertinelli played younger daughter Barbara, a role that launched her career at just 15 years old.

She went on to marry guitarist Eddie Van Halen and spent decades afterward publicly wrestling with the same body-image struggles the show itself never touched, eventually building one of the more visible second careers of anyone in this cast.

That marriage, and the three honest memoirs she eventually wrote about it, turned out to define her public life far longer than the sitcom did.

Schneider Kept Making the Family Laugh, on Screen and Off

Pat Harrington Jr. played Dwayne Schneider, the building superintendent whose self-styled ladies’-man routine masked a real, protective loyalty to the Romano women.

He’d already spent two decades as a familiar guest face on classic television before Schneider made him a household name, and he drank large amounts of water before every taping specifically to give himself the character’s signature paunch, a detail he only revealed decades later.

The full story behind that trick, and the decades of guest spots that came before it, says more about his career than Schneider alone ever could.

The Real Family Behind the Cameras Stayed Close for Decades

The four leads reunited on the Today show in 2008, and again for a 2005 reunion special where Franklin told both of her television daughters something that clearly unsettled her. “You are living, in a sense, Ann Romano’s life,” she said, noting both Bertinelli and Phillips had themselves become single parents raising teenage kids. “That is shocking and terrifying to me.”

That closeness carried through to the end. Bertinelli called Franklin “one of the most important women in my life and a second mother to me” after her death, and Franklin herself brought Harrington and Bertinelli back for guest spots on her later projects whenever she could.

One Day at a Time, Frequently Asked Questions

Why was Mackenzie Phillips fired from One Day at a Time?

She was fired twice, in 1980 and again in 1983, both times due to her ongoing struggles with drug and alcohol addiction that made her increasingly unreliable on set.

Who did Valerie Bertinelli marry?

She married guitarist Eddie Van Halen in 1981, and the two had one son, Wolfgang, before divorcing in 2007. She later married financial planner Tom Vitale in 2011, divorcing him in 2022.

How did Bonnie Franklin die?

She died on March 1, 2013, at age 69, from complications of pancreatic cancer, following a diagnosis just months earlier.

How did Pat Harrington Jr. die?

He died on January 6, 2016, at age 86, from complications of Alzheimer’s disease, following a fall and hospitalization the previous November.

Was One Day at a Time based on a true story?

Yes, creator Whitney Blake based it on her own experience as a divorced single mother raising three children, including her own daughter, future actress Meredith Baxter.